In Memory of Robert Muchnick & The Center For Children’s Justice. It was Robert Muchnick that brought to my attention the struggle of Fathers in America to remain in their children’s life after a divorce or separation from The Mother. It was at the time when I first realized that I would NOT be seeing my sons or daughters again as the Family Court System became involved. It was a maze of challenges and I could not have made it without him, He changed my life and my perspective on parenting forever. “The Case For Judicial Impeachment by Robert Muchnick” .
There are very few people that I have known throughout my life that were not born to single parents or who are not single parents themselves. A large majority of that group had children from an earlier relationship before finally settling into a marriage, some go through several relationships or marriages. The truth is the odds are against the survival of marriage or even a substantial union of any type between two single parents. A very small percentage of the people I have known are not parents and within that small group is another even smaller group, those that do not want to be parents or care to have anything to do with children at all. My direct experience with an individual who chose at an early age, possibly puberty, NOT to be a parent, not to express any care for children and most obviously a great disdain for people who are parents. In our society some people are called wicked or demented for a variety of reasons and some go so far as to carry out evil acts born of the words they had spoken earlier. The prisons are full of child murderers, wives who killed their husbands, serial killers and freaks who just went off for no apparent or known cause. Out among those who are considered normal and those who function well within their culture, family and friends are individuals who hide dark secrets and intense hatred for reasons unknown, but they are out there and are unknown to others. This is about one of those freaks of society that so well hid their intents that when uncovered it was just too unbelievable, not this person. This person had a following, believers in their righteousness, their trustworthiness and honor, and it was well deserved since this person had taken a life pathway that spoke of such. However, We know now that many that are not whom they seem to be and even when questioned their defenders will rise to protect them , right or wrong. Fortunately, individuals that seek to destroy that which was meant to exist, to separate what should be joined wreck havoc in others lives to fill the voids in their own, can be dealt with and there is an antidote to their wickedness. This is the story of Twisted Sister.
It will require exposing family members who were “not so truthful” about some family events and who actually created what are known as “family secrets”. The fear of prosecution no longer exists as I have comfortably found a way to tell this tale of a failed attempt to keep a family secret held by Generations of Women to quietly eliminate The Men in the family, and the unexpected turns and tribulations that led to today. One of those “nobody will believe what He/She did” stories and it was true and nobody believed it. Except one. It took many years of thought before I decided what I wanted to tell You and when to tell you what I felt You should know about your life as a child. It was after you and your sisters/brothers had reached adulthood and in our brief exchanges that you (Daughter) revealed some of what you experienced as a child. It was obvious that You had been inundated with rumors and gossip, negative and detrimental stories after moving to Texas that caused You to “not respect Me.” You spoke to me like an ex boyfriend and it was then that I realized there was no repairing the damage that had been done. Just as you had no desire to ever return to Colorado because it was too cold I had no desire to return to Texas because it was too hot. In reality there was simply no value held of each other by this time and it made no sense to travel afar to discuss what had happen. An honest and open adult conversation was necessary for Me to reconnect with You, to clear the air, answer and ask whatever questions may exist, To say that You are not able or have no desire to discuss the past is a huge red flag for Me as limiting the degree of honesty you are willing to exhibit. .
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